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  • Colours

    Colours

    Changing Paths Challenge day 26: colours For today’s challenge, I’ve pulled up my article about the colours of Paganism from my blog, Dowsing for Divinity. Green is the colour everyone immediately associates with Paganism. It is the colour of nature, of trees, and all growing things. It is associated with the Green Man, a symbol…

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  • Books

    Books

    Changing Paths challenge day 25: books 📚 I love reading books. I love writing books. I love talking about books. I love having a to-be-read pile. I love rereading books that I have enjoyed. A book is a little world and its characters are mirrors you can hold up, and try identifying with them to…

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  • Music

    Music

    Changing Paths challenge day 24: Music I love music, especially any piece where the artist really put their soul into it. This is often the case with the music of oppressed, displaced, and marginalized peoples. I have very diverse tastes in music but some of my favourite genres are Cajun, klezmer, zydeco, blues, baroque, medieval…

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  • Festivals

    Festivals

    Changing Paths challenge day 23: Festivals I love Pagan festivals and I am very glad that there’s one every six weeks or so, as it takes the pressure off of Yule. If you only celebrate Yule and Easter (and Thanksgiving in North America), there’s so much pressure to get it right and have a good…

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  • Feasts

    Feasts

    Changing Paths challenge day 22: feast I love to have a feast (shared food / Pagan potluck) in sacred space, so that we are feasting with the gods. However it’s got a bit impractical with the numbers of people involved and so we tend to have our feast after circle these days.

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  • Solstice

    Solstice

    Changing Paths challenge day 21: solstice The sun pauses on her journeyAround the horizonWaiting for you to stopTo look around and seeThe beauty of the world The flowers and the hills and the treesThe sunsets and the butterfliesThe mountains and the oceansThe laughter of childrenRefaat’s kites sailing on the breeze The kind old sun is…

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  • Cycles

    Cycles

    Changing Paths challenge day 20: cycles. All four classical elements have cycles. What goes around comes around. Everything is always changing, nothing is ever lost.

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  • Time

    Time

    Changing Paths challenge 19: Time 🕰️ ⏰ Humans haven’t always thought of time as linear. A cyclical view of time seems to me to be more in tune with Nature. Many cultures see time as cyclical, or as a set of interlocking cycles: the cycle of the sun, the moon, the stars, the rotation of…

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  • On being a Queer Muslim

    On being a Queer Muslim

    Amazing conversation on being a Queer Muslim, leaving and returning to your religion with a fresh perspective, navigating different spaces that don’t support every aspect of who you are, and dealing with religious trauma. Watch the video

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  • Intuition

    Intuition

    Changing Paths challenge day 18: Intuition Spidey sense, gut feeling: we might call these a sort of bodily knowledge, but they are key components of intuition.

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  • My path

    My path

    Changing Paths challenge day 17: my journey Despite the adage that one supposedly becomes more conservative as one gets older, I have in fact become more left-wing. I’m generation X but apparently this is also true of millennials. Good job millennials, keep it up. In terms of my Pagan path, my goals have shifted towards…

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  • Life

    Life

    Changing Paths challenge day 16: life. “My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” — Maya Angelou Maya Angelou also said that none of us are free until we are all free. The bottom line is that…

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  • The sky

    The sky

    Changing Paths challenge 15: the sky. The sky has a huge impact on my mood. If it’s blue with a few clouds, I’m happy. If it’s dramatic, I’m excited. If there’s a rainbow, I love it (especially the rainbow that appeared the day after Ireland voted for same sex marriage). If it’s grey and overcast,…

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  • My path

    My path

    Changing Paths challenge day 14: my path. I don’t really describe my path as a spiritual path anymore. I think of it as an embodied path. My practice is to notice the beauty in the everyday: flowers, trees, music, the landscape, the sky, food, and poetry. As The Charge of the Goddess says, all acts…

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  • Roots and wings

    Roots and wings

    Changing Paths Challenge day 13: Roots and wings Today’s prompt is a reference to Carolyn McDade’s classic song, Spirit of Life, which contains the line “roots hold me close, wings set me free”. My family roots are in nonconformist churches but there’s also a strong tradition of loving Nature. My Mum loved Nature and so…

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  • Songs

    Songs

    Changing Paths challenge day 12: Songs. Singing has always been a big part of my spirituality, and I love being in choirs. I dream of organizing a Pagan choir again one day.

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  • Wonder and awe

    Wonder and awe

    Changing Paths challenge day 11: wonder and awe. I experience wonder and awe in response to Nature, whether in the form of mountains, lakes, rivers, waterfalls, trees, or on a smaller scale such as the beauty of flowers or the complexity of a spider web.

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  • Animals and birds

    Animals and birds

    Changing Paths challenge day 10: animals and birds. I love animals and birds and Nature. It feels like such a privilege to see animals and birds in the wild. In our garden we have chipmunks and cardinals and robins and rabbits. We were once visited by a very floofy skunk. We have only seen one…

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  • Drama

    Drama

    Changing Paths challenge 9: drama. I took this photo of a rather dramatic sky the other day. Whenever I see clouds like this, it reminds me of the bit in The Blues Brothers movie where one of them says “we’re on a mission from God”.

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Blog archive

  • Dealing with toxic religious experiences

  • Review: The Devil May Care

  • Escape to freedom

  • Healing through reclaiming

  • Made up Christian doctrines

  • A Wellness Cult

  • Double standards

  • Trolling Scientology

  • Revelation and Ragnarök

  • Ways of talking about faith

  • Tenth anniversary edition of All acts

  • Meditation is powerful

  • DARVO

  • Do you fear death?

  • Discerning good theology

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